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· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

I still carry the sensation of being underwater even days after the dive. The body adjusts in a way that lingers, the ears remembering the slow act of equalizing, the muscles recalling the pressure shifts, and the eyes still holding images of fish passing by in coordinated movement. There is a quiet in that environment that is unlike anything on the surface, and once you return, a part of you stays with it. Breathing through the regulator, watching the exhaled air rise in streams, it all replays in fragments when I close my eyes or when silence finds me during the day. It is not dramatic, but it is steady, as if the body itself has not entirely surfaced.

The mind seems to hold onto the colors and patterns of the underwater world longer than expected. Groups of fish circling, the way light bends through the water, and the sensation of being suspended rather than standing still create a memory that feels physical, not just visual. I notice that normal sounds after diving feel heavier, almost intrusive, as though I had grown accustomed to the muffled tones beneath. That subtle quiet underwater feels more natural in retrospect, and adjusting back to the surface noise takes more time than I thought. The more I think about it, the more I realize the dive is not over just because I am out of the water.

There is also the sensation of control during descent and ascent, marked most clearly by equalizing. The process is repetitive, almost mechanical, yet it grounds the dive in the body’s physical limits. Feeling the ears adjust, recognizing the pressure in the chest and sinuses, and responding slowly creates a rhythm that continues to echo later. It reminds me that diving is not only about what you see but about what you feel inside. That balance between external beauty and internal regulation is what makes the memory stay longer. It becomes an experience that lives in the body just as much as in the mind.

Even when back on land, I catch myself breathing deeper than usual, mimicking the long draws through the regulator. Sometimes I notice a kind of phantom movement, as if I were still kicking gently with fins. These habits fade after a few days, but while they last, they act like a reminder of a different state of being. It feels almost like the body resists letting go of that environment. Perhaps it is because being underwater compresses so many sensations into such a short time that it takes longer for them to dissolve once you return. That delay is where the real depth of the experience lies.

Thinking back on it now, I find that diving teaches patience in ways I did not anticipate. The fish move without urgency, the pressure reminds you to slow down, and the breathing forces a rhythm that feels deliberate. Returning to daily life, I still notice the aftereffects of that pace. It is less about nostalgia and more about residue, the physical and mental traces of having been in a space where time moves differently. I suspect this is why divers often look forward to the next dive—not only for the views, but for that subtle shift in how the body and mind remember being underwater long after resurfacing.

· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

Bangkok is a dense and lively city that attracts millions of visitors every year, and it has become one of the most visited international cities for Indians. The food scene is central to its appeal, with everything from street vendors to Michelin-starred restaurants offering an incredible variety of flavors. For anyone arriving from Delhi or Mumbai, the city feels accessible and familiar in parts, yet it carries its own rhythm that is fast-paced and demanding. The combination of convenience, affordability, and world-class dining makes it a regular stop for many travelers.

Walking through Bangkok, the density is immediately noticeable. The roads are packed, the markets overflow with people, and the skytrain stations are never empty. At times it feels chaotic, but that same energy is what fuels the experience. It is not a city where stillness is easy to find, but the intensity of life here can be grounding in its own way. For Indian travelers, the city feels comfortable because of the cultural overlaps in food habits, bargaining in markets, and the general warmth of people. That sense of ease explains why the city has a constant flow of Indian tourists throughout the year.

Food remains the highlight of every visit. Bangkok is home to a surprisingly high number of Michelin-starred restaurants, both high-end dining experiences and smaller places recognized for their consistency and authenticity. Beyond that, the street food scene is unmatched, with dishes like pad thai, satay, and mango sticky rice available at every corner. The affordability of these meals compared to international standards makes exploring the food culture much more approachable. For many, a trip to Bangkok is as much about eating across neighborhoods as it is about sightseeing.

Despite its draw, Bangkok can feel overwhelming. The sheer density of people, vehicles, and noise can drain energy after a few days. The heat adds another layer of intensity, making simple walks demanding. Yet, this very character is part of what makes Bangkok memorable. Travelers are constantly balancing between overstimulation and discovery, and it is in those moments that the city reveals itself. It is not a place that leaves one indifferent; instead, it demands engagement.

Each visit reinforces why Bangkok holds such a strong reputation. It is a city where food alone could justify the journey, but it is also one that reflects the growth of tourism in Asia. The infrastructure, the diversity of experiences, and the balance between modernity and tradition keep it relevant. For Indian travelers, the short flight time, easy connectivity, and variety of attractions make it a reliable choice. It is a city worth returning to, even if only to experience the same dishes once again.

· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

Bangkok has a reputation for its shopping malls, and the experience of visiting them is very different from what I am used to in India. The scale is larger, the variety broader, and the focus on fashion is visible everywhere. Platinum Mall stands out because it is designed almost entirely around clothes and accessories. Walking through the aisles, the pattern becomes clear: people buy a suitcase first and then move from shop to shop, filling it with items until it is full. It is not just tourists who follow this routine but also buyers sourcing for resale. The mall is structured in a way that encourages bulk shopping, with price differences based on the number of pieces bought.

The idea of shopping with a suitcase seems unusual at first but makes sense after observing how the place functions. Carrying bags from multiple stores is inconvenient, especially when clothes are bought in large numbers. A single suitcase becomes a practical solution, and the sight of people dragging them along the corridors is almost as common as the sight of hangers and racks. The energy is transactional, with little emphasis on leisurely browsing. Unlike high-end malls in Sukhumvit or around Siam, Platinum is less about ambiance and more about volume. The narrow shops are stacked with merchandise, and quick turnover is the priority.

Comparing this to other malls in Bangkok shows how the city has organized retail for different kinds of demand. Central World and Siam Paragon are polished, with international brands, restaurants, and entertainment bundled together. Terminal 21 builds its identity around themed floors that feel more like a tourist attraction. Platinum, in contrast, strips everything down to buying and selling clothes at scale. It is crowded, efficient, and purpose-driven. This division of roles among malls makes Bangkok a unique hub for shopping, where both the casual visitor and the serious reseller can find spaces tailored to their needs.

Spending time at Platinum is also a reminder of how fashion markets evolve in Asia. Wholesale and retail blur into each other, and the same shop can cater to a tourist picking up a single dress and to a reseller buying in dozens. The bargaining culture is present but softened by the tiered pricing model, where discounts are automatically offered for bulk. This efficiency reduces friction and allows shoppers to plan their purchases better. The availability of every category of clothing in one building also explains why people commit hours, sometimes an entire day, to just one mall.

The memory of Platinum Mall is less about one store or one purchase and more about the overall atmosphere. Seeing suitcases roll past every few minutes and shopkeepers quickly packing items in plastic covers reflects how the place runs like a system. It is not glamorous, but it works. For me, it showed how Bangkok’s malls operate not just as spaces for consumption but as micro-economies with their own routines. The suitcase shopping method might look excessive at first, but within the environment of Platinum Mall, it is the most practical and almost necessary approach.

· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

Flying into Koh Samui is a reminder of how different travel feels when the airport itself is designed with character. The terminal is small and functional, but it does not follow the typical glass-and-concrete model of large international airports. Instead, it has an open-air layout with covered walkways and shuttle buses that look more like trams, carrying passengers from the aircraft to the arrival area. The process is smooth and surprisingly relaxed, and the whole experience feels less like entering a transport hub and more like being welcomed into an island setting. For someone heading toward diving in Koh Tao, the first impression is already tuned to the pace of the islands.

The buses that take passengers from the plane to the terminal are one of the most memorable details. They are not the usual airport shuttles but designed with open sides and wood-inspired seating, which fits well with the tropical background. It makes the transfer short and pleasant, not rushed, even though the logistics remain efficient. The design seems intentional, almost to remind visitors that they are now far from the structure and scale of Bangkok. The difference between stepping off an overnight flight into a busy hub versus arriving at Koh Samui is striking. It sets a different rhythm for the rest of the journey.

From Koh Samui, the next step is to move toward Koh Tao. The transfer involves the ferry, and that journey shifts the traveler further into island mode. The smaller scale of the airport makes the connection manageable, with baggage handling and movement between different modes of transport kept simple. The contrast between a city airport and Koh Samui is not only architectural but psychological. Instead of the stress of navigating long queues and crowded terminals, the entire setup makes it easier to adjust into travel that is centered on water, boats, and slower pace.

Arriving here a day before the start of the diving course feels like a practical decision. The body needs time to settle after the overnight flights and transitions. Sleep is usually broken in these kinds of trips, especially when moving across time zones or catching early-morning connections. The small comfort of an easy arrival at Koh Samui helps in adjusting. By the time the ferry reaches Koh Tao, the fatigue of long-haul travel is replaced with anticipation of starting something new. It shows how much the infrastructure of travel influences mood and preparation, not just movement.

Tomorrow the diving certification begins. It will be the Open Water course, and arriving with a calm state of mind is useful for the start. The first steps of getting familiar with the equipment, the techniques, and the safety procedures require attention, and it helps to not be burdened by the exhaustion of transit. Looking back, the experience of Koh Samui airport and the transfer onward is not just a detail of the journey but part of how the preparation shapes itself. Small airports, when done well, act as a transition space that eases the shift between long flights and the reason for travel.

· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

Flying into Bangkok often means taking an overnight flight, and the experience of managing sleep on such routes has changed over the years. The body used to adjust more easily when younger, slipping into a few hours of rest on the plane and carrying on with the day ahead after landing. Now the disruption to the sleep cycle is more noticeable, and it takes longer to feel aligned again. The early morning arrival into Bangkok is convenient from a scheduling point of view, but the fatigue is harder to ignore with age.

An overnight flight compresses rest into a setting that is not designed for proper sleep. Airplane seats, meal timings, and the general movement around the cabin break up the rhythm that the body is used to. What used to be manageable with a short nap now feels insufficient. The result is a sluggish first day in the city, with the mind slightly dulled and the body craving proper rest. For short trips, this makes the balance between time gained and energy lost more important to consider.

Bangkok itself adds to this equation because the city can feel overwhelming on little sleep. The traffic, the humidity, and the busy energy of the place demand alertness. Without enough rest, small inconveniences become more noticeable. Planning the first day lightly and giving the body time to catch up has become more important. It no longer feels practical to land and dive straight into a packed itinerary, even if that seemed normal in earlier years.

The broader question is about how sleep cycles shift with age and why disruptions feel more difficult to recover from. The body’s ability to adjust to irregular hours decreases, and the margin for lost rest narrows. A single missed night can create a drag that carries on for days. The resilience that once made overnight flights seem like an efficient option is no longer the same, and it makes sense to plan around recovery as much as the travel itself.

Thinking about this makes overnight flights less attractive in the long term, especially when the purpose of travel is more than just reaching a destination quickly. Choosing routes with daytime travel or adding a buffer day feels more reasonable now. Flying into Bangkok will always remain tied to the convenience of overnight options from Delhi, but recognizing how age changes the way those flights affect the body helps in making better decisions for future trips.

· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

The upcoming trip to Thailand feels different because it is not only about visiting Bangkok and Koh Tao but also about committing to an open water scuba diving certification. Bangkok will serve as the entry point, with its mix of convenience, food, and short stay before heading out. The real focus will be Koh Tao, which has become known worldwide for scuba diving courses and certification programs. Choosing this destination is as much about the practical aspect of access as it is about the chance to experience diving in clear waters.

Scuba diving certification is not just another holiday activity. It requires learning, practicing, and following safety procedures closely. There is a physical and mental aspect to being underwater, handling the gear, and trusting the process. The thought of breathing through a regulator and adjusting buoyancy is both exciting and slightly intimidating. The appeal is in gaining a skill that opens up possibilities for diving in different locations in the future, making it an investment beyond just this trip.

Koh Tao has built its identity around diving, and that makes it a natural choice for this step. The island has schools, instructors, and an environment shaped for beginners and experienced divers alike. The open water course takes a few days, with classroom sessions, confined water practice, and then dives in the ocean. The idea of finishing the certification there means returning from the trip not only with memories but also with a globally recognized credential. This feels more purposeful than a regular holiday.

Travel also plays its part in shaping the experience. Koh Tao is not the easiest place to reach, but that isolation contributes to its character. The ferry connections and distance from the busy mainland make it less crowded than some other tourist-heavy spots. That in itself gives the course a better setting, with fewer distractions and more focus on the activity. Bangkok, on the other hand, provides the contrast of urban energy before and after the island days. Together, they make the trip balanced in its own way.

Overall, the anticipation is not just about the locations but the learning and growth that will come with it. Doing the open water scuba diving certification in Koh Tao will be a personal milestone and a skill that adds a new dimension to travel. Thailand provides the right environment to make that possible, and this trip feels like the beginning of exploring a different side of adventure.

· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

The mathematics of connecting flights operates on razor-thin margins that airlines have perfected over decades. A thirty-minute layover in Dubai, forty-five minutes in Frankfurt, or an hour in Amsterdam represents the absolute minimum time needed to deplane, navigate terminals, clear security checkpoints, and board the next aircraft. These tight connections maximize aircraft utilization and keep ticket prices competitive, but they also create a house of cards that collapses spectacularly when external factors intervene. The system assumes perfect conditions where flights arrive on schedule, baggage transfers seamlessly, and passengers move through airports like well-oiled machinery. Reality rarely cooperates with these assumptions.

Someone I know recently experienced this cascade effect firsthand during what should have been a straightforward vacation trip. Their journey began normally enough with a departure from Bangalore, connecting through a major Middle East hub before continuing to their final destination. The itinerary looked reasonable on paper with standard connection times that left adequate buffer for normal delays. However, the ongoing conflict between Iran and Israel had forced airlines to reroute flights around restricted airspace, adding significant flight time to routes that typically passed through or near the affected region. What began as a minor adjustment to avoid geopolitical tensions snowballed into a travel nightmare that stretched their journey beyond twenty-four hours.

The first delay materialized before takeoff when air traffic control held their initial flight for two hours due to the longer route required to circumvent Iranian airspace. This seemingly manageable delay triggered a domino effect that would define the entire journey. Missing the first connection meant automatic rebooking on the next available flight, which departed six hours later. That delay caused them to miss their final connection as well, requiring an overnight stay in the transit city with another full day of travel ahead. The airline provided accommodation and meal vouchers, standard protocol for delays beyond their control, but these gestures felt inadequate compensation for the physical and mental exhaustion that accompanies extended travel disruptions.

The human cost of stacked delays extends far beyond mere inconvenience. Sleep deprivation sets in quickly when crossing multiple time zones while dealing with uncertain schedules and uncomfortable airport seating. Airport food becomes a necessity rather than a choice, often expensive and unsatisfying fare consumed at odd hours that further disrupt circadian rhythms. The constant uncertainty about departure times creates a state of heightened alertness that prevents genuine rest even when opportunities arise. Phone batteries drain from constant communication with worried family members and frequent checks of flight status updates. The accumulation of these small stresses compounds into genuine fatigue that can take days to recover from once the journey finally concludes.

Airlines face genuine operational challenges when geopolitical events force route changes, and their response protocols generally follow established procedures designed to minimize passenger disruption. However, the disconnect between corporate policies and passenger experience becomes stark during extended delays. Automated rebooking systems prioritize available seats over passenger convenience, often creating itineraries that would be rejected by any reasonable traveler under normal circumstances. Gate agents armed with standard scripts about weather delays and operational requirements struggle to address the legitimate frustration of passengers facing day-long delays. The compensation structure reflects industry standards rather than the actual impact on passenger time and well-being. Most troubling is the way these systems treat passenger time as essentially worthless, offering meal vouchers worth twenty dollars to compensate for losing an entire day of vacation or business travel. The experience reveals how airline efficiency optimization has created a system that works well under ideal conditions but fails catastrophically when those conditions change.

· 2 min read
Gaurav Parashar

I visited Pahalgam in 2007 with my family. It was a quiet, serene place, nestled in the Himalayas with lush green meadows and the Lidder River flowing gently through it. The town was a refuge from the noise of cities, a place where families, honeymooners, and adventure seekers gathered without fear. We stayed in a small wooden cabin, took pony rides to Betaab Valley, and drank kahwa while watching shepherds guide their flocks. There was no hint of unrest, no visible tension—just the calm beauty of Kashmir that so many travelers cherish.

Yesterday's terrorist attack in Pahalgam is a grim reminder of how fragile peace can be. Innocent lives were lost, families shattered, and a place once known for its tranquility has again been stained with violence. It is despicable—targeting tourists and locals who have no part in political conflicts. The brutality of such acts is not just an attack on individuals but on the very idea of coexistence. Kashmir has suffered too much, and every such incident pushes back the possibility of normalcy, leaving scars that take generations to heal.

I remember the shopkeepers smiling as they sold handmade carpets, the children playing near the riverbanks, and the quiet hum of daily life uninterrupted by fear. Today, those memories are overshadowed by the knowledge that terror can strike anywhere, even in places that feel untouched by the world’s chaos. It is a stark reminder that no region is immune to extremism, and the cost is always borne by ordinary people who just want to live without looking over their shoulders.

May the departed souls find peace, and may those responsible face justice. The only way forward is to reject violence entirely, to rebuild trust, and to ensure that places like Pahalgam remain safe for travelers and locals alike. The people of Kashmir deserve better—a life free from fear, where the mountains and rivers are symbols of beauty, not battlegrounds. Until then, we can only hope, remember, and refuse to let terror rewrite the story of a land that has already endured too much.

· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

Charyn Canyon and Black Canyon, located near Almaty, Kazakhstan, bear a striking resemblance to the Grand Canyon in the United States. The terrain is rugged, layered with sedimentary rock formations, and covered in a fine dust that clings to everything. The colors shift between shades of red, brown, and gray, depending on the sunlight. The canyons were carved over millions of years by the Charyn River, which still flows at the base, creating a stark contrast between the dry cliffs and the narrow strip of water below. The hike is a round trip of about six kilometers, leading through winding paths and steep drops before finally revealing the river at the end. The sight of the water after the arid trek makes the journey worthwhile.

Charyn Canyon, Almaty March 2025

The trek begins at the edge of the canyon, where the path descends sharply into the valley. The dust is thick, and the air is dry, making the hike feel more strenuous than the distance suggests. The rock formations tower overhead, some jagged and others smoothed by erosion. The Black Canyon section is narrower, with walls that seem to close in, while Charyn Canyon opens up into wider vistas. The trail is well-marked but uneven, requiring steady footing. Along the way, there are few signs of vegetation, just occasional shrubs clinging to the rocks. The silence is broken only by the wind and the occasional echo of voices from other hikers.

For those who prefer not to walk the entire distance, UAZ minibuses operate between the canyon’s viewpoints and the river. These Soviet-era vehicles are rugged, bouncing over the unpaved roads with little comfort but reliable efficiency. They save time and energy, especially in the midday heat, though they miss the gradual immersion of the hike. The minibuses drop visitors near the river, where the landscape softens slightly. The Charyn River is narrow but fast-moving, cutting through the rock with a clarity that contrasts the dusty surroundings. The water is cold, and some visitors wade in to cool off before heading back.

The canyons are best visited in the early morning or late afternoon when the light enhances the textures of the rock and the heat is less intense. The entire experience is stark and unembellished, a reminder of how erosion shapes the earth over time. The hike is not particularly long, but the environment makes it memorable. The UAZ minibuses provide an alternative, though walking allows for a slower appreciation of the terrain. Whether trekking or riding, the end result is the same—the sight of the Charyn River, a quiet reward in the middle of the desert-like expanse.

· 2 min read
Gaurav Parashar

India has incredible destinations—from the Himalayas to the backwaters of Kerala. But getting there is often half the battle. Flights get delayed, roads are unpredictable, and popular spots are overcrowded. For an extended weekend, I’ve started looking at places outside India that are just a short flight away (under four hours from Delhi) but offer something entirely different. Almaty, for instance, feels like a hidden gem with its alpine scenery and Central Asian flavors. Nepal, though close, has a distinct culture and trekking routes that don’t feel like a repeat of Indian hill stations. The novelty isn’t just in the place but in how effortless it is to get there and immerse in something unfamiliar.

The problem with domestic travel isn’t the lack of options—it’s the predictability. Goa is great, but after a dozen visits, the charm wears thin. The same beaches, the same crowds, the same menus. Meanwhile, a three-hour flight to Tbilisi or Bishkek drops you into a world where the architecture, food, and even the air feel different. These places aren’t necessarily better, just less familiar. There’s a thrill in navigating a new city where Google Maps struggles, where you order food by pointing at a menu, and where no one assumes you’re a local. India has this too, but the logistics often kill the spontaneity.

Another advantage is the lack of commercialization in some of these destinations. Places like Sri Lanka’s east coast or Uzbekistan’s Silk Road cities haven’t been overrun by Instagram tourism yet. You can explore without a checklist, stumble into local eateries, and not feel like you’re part of a conveyor belt of tourists. In India, even lesser-known spots are quickly commercialized—homestays turn into resorts, quiet villages become “eco-tourism hubs” with inflated prices. The charm fades fast when every experience feels staged.

I’m not dismissing India—it’s home, and nothing compares to its diversity. But for a quick break, the convenience of a direct flight to a place with a different rhythm is hard to ignore. Maybe it’s the appeal of the unknown, or maybe it’s just the relief of not having to plan around bad roads or overbooked trains. Either way, until domestic travel becomes more seamless, I’ll keep sneaking off to these short-haul escapes.