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(DAY 624) Enduring Impact of School Friendships

· 2 min read
Gaurav Parashar

There's something uniquely refreshing about meeting old school friends, especially those with whom you've shared formative years. My recent meeting with Rajeev Swami, a friend from Jaipuria Vidyalaya, reminded me of this simple truth. Our friendship, which began in 2005 during Class XI over casual football matches on the school grounds, has stood the test of time. Those school football sessions, where we would play, laid the foundation for a friendship that has now spanned almost two decades.

The trajectory of life takes everyone on different paths, and Rajeev's journey has been particularly interesting to follow. From managing sales and marketing at his family's hotel business to his current role in Institutional Solar Panel Sales across South East Asia, his career evolution has been remarkable. Our conversations now blend nostalgia with professional insights, creating a rich exchange of perspectives. His experience in the renewable energy sector, particularly in emerging markets, offers a fresh viewpoint on global business trends, while our shared memories of school days keep us grounded in where we started.

Meeting old friends like Rajeev has a unique way of recharging one's energy levels. Unlike new friendships, which require careful navigation and gradual trust-building, old friendships allow for immediate, authentic connections. There's no need for pretense or careful word selection - we pick up exactly where we left off, whether it's been weeks or months since our last meeting. This comfort level, built over years of shared experiences, creates a space where conversations flow naturally between past memories and current life updates.

The value of maintaining these long-term friendships becomes more apparent with age. While daily life keeps us busy with work commitments and responsibilities, these periodic meetups serve as important anchors to our past and reminders of our personal growth. My friendship with Rajeev has evolved from simple football matches to discussions about business strategies and life choices, yet retains the same ease and authenticity from our school days. These enduring friendships not only provide emotional support but also offer a unique perspective on our life's journey, reminding us of where we started and how far we've come.