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· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

Today marks Diwali 2024, and I find myself in Jaipur celebrating this significant festival. The city has transformed itself for the occasion, with homes and streets decorated with lights and diyas. The preparation for Diwali began several days ago, with the traditional cleaning and organizing of spaces, both physical and mental. This year's celebration feels different, perhaps because of the changing dynamics of how we perceive and celebrate festivals in our increasingly fast-paced world. The essence of Diwali remains unchanged though - it continues to symbolize the triumph of light over darkness, knowledge over ignorance, and good over evil.

The story of Lord Ram's return to Ayodhya after fourteen years of exile has been told countless times, but this year it made me think about patience and perseverance in a new light. In today's world of instant gratification and quick results, the fourteen-year wait that Lord Ram endured teaches us something valuable about time and its role in achieving our goals. Looking back at my own experiences this year, I've noticed how often we rush through life, expecting immediate outcomes. The mythology of Diwali reminds us that some journeys are meant to be long, and that waiting period often serves as a time for growth and preparation.

Celebrating Diwali in Jaipur brings its own unique perspective to the festival. The Pink City has a way of blending tradition with contemporary life that makes the celebration more meaningful. The local markets are filled with traditional sweets and decorations, while modern elements like LED lights and digital greetings coexist with traditional diyas and hand-written cards. This blend of old and new mirrors our own lives, where we constantly balance traditional values with modern necessities. The city's architecture provides a perfect backdrop for the festival, with ancient havelis and modern buildings alike adorned with lights, creating a sense of continuity between past and present.

As we step into the new year according to the Hindu calendar, I wish everyone a year filled with growth and learning. This Diwali has taught me that true progress often requires patience and persistence, much like the steady flame of a diya that continues to burn despite the wind. While we celebrate this festival of lights, let's remember that like the small diya that pushes back darkness, even our smallest efforts toward positive change can make a significant impact. Here's hoping that the coming year brings opportunities for growth, learning, and meaningful connections for all of us. Happy Diwali 2024.

· 4 min read
Gaurav Parashar

Navratra, also known as Navaratri or the "Nine Nights," is a Hindu festival celebrated twice a year, once in the spring and once in the autumn. This ancient tradition holds immense cultural and spiritual significance within the Hindu faith, commemorating the triumph of good over evil and honoring the divine feminine energy, embodied by the Goddess Durga.

The Spring Navratra and Gudi Padwa

The spring Navratra typically falls in the months of March or April, coinciding with the Hindu new year celebrated as Gudi Padwa or Ugadi. This auspicious occasion marks the beginning of the lunisolar Hindu calendar and is considered an ideal time for new beginnings, spiritual renewal, and celebrating the cycle of life.

The Significance of the Muhurat

The term "muhurat" refers to an auspicious time or moment, determined by astrological calculations based on the positions of celestial bodies. During Navratra, specific muhurats are designated for various rituals and practices, such as invoking the blessings of the divine, performing pujas (worship rituals), and seeking guidance for important endeavors.

Each of the nine nights of Navratra is dedicated to worshipping one of the nine forms of the Goddess Durga, representing different aspects of her divine power. Devotees perform special pujas, chant mantras, and observe fasts during these nine nights, seeking the blessings of the Goddess for strength, courage, and the eradication of evil forces.

The Significance of Gudi Padwa

Gudi Padwa, celebrated on the first day after the Navratra, marks the beginning of the Hindu new year and is a time of joy and celebration. The term "Gudi" refers to a bamboo stick adorned with a silk cloth, representing the Hindu flag or the victory of Lord Brahma over the demon king Shumbha and Nishumbha.

On this day, households decorate their homes with rangoli (colorful patterns made with powder or flowers), hoist the Gudi, and prepare traditional dishes like shrikhand and puran poli. It is a time for new beginnings, starting new ventures, and seeking the blessings of the deities for prosperity and success in the coming year.

The Navratra and Gudi Padwa hold deep-rooted significance in Hindu culture, mythology, and tradition. The festival celebrates the triumph of good over evil, as depicted in the epic battle between the Goddess Durga and the formidable demon Mahishasura.

According to Hindu mythology, Mahishasura had unleashed terror and chaos across the universe, and it was only through the divine intervention of the Goddess Durga, an embodiment of the collective power of all the gods, that he was ultimately defeated. This victory symbolizes the eternal struggle between righteousness and evil, and the festival serves as a reminder of the importance of upholding dharma (righteous conduct) and overcoming the negative forces that threaten peace and harmony.

Moreover, the Navratra festival honors the divine feminine energy, known as Shakti, and its role in creation, sustenance, and transformation. The Goddess Durga represents the fierce and protective aspect of this energy, guarding the universe from malevolent forces and bestowing blessings upon her devotees.

The rituals and practices observed during Navratra, such as fasting, chanting mantras, and performing pujas, are believed to purify the mind, body, and soul, fostering spiritual growth and self-discipline. The festival also promotes unity and community spirit, as families and friends gather to participate in various cultural activities and celebrations.

As the festival culminates with Gudi Padwa, it signifies the beginning of a new chapter, a fresh start filled with hope, positivity, and the blessings of the divine.

यत्र नार्यस्तु पूज्यन्ते रमन्ते तत्र देवताः ।

यत्रैतास्तु न पूज्यन्ते सर्वास्तत्राफलाः क्रियाः ॥

Where women are honored, there the gods rejoice; but where they are not honored, no sacred rite bears fruit.

· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

Holi, the vibrant festival of colors, has always been a cherished occasion for families and communities to come together and celebrate the arrival of spring. This year, the excitement surrounding Holi 2024 is amplified as my brother Abhijit, sister-in-law, and their daughter Idika Parashar join us, making it a truly joyous family affair.

Holi, 2024 Oshee Parashar, First Holi in India, 25-Mar-2024

As the sun rises on the morning of Holi, our home in Jaipur becomes a canvas of vibrant hues. The air is filled with the aroma of traditional delicacies like gujiya and thandai, and the laughter of children echoes through the streets. The anticipation of a day filled with color, music, and laughter is palpable.

The Mythological Roots of Holi

Holi is not just a celebration of colors; it is deeply rooted in Hindu mythology. One of the most popular stories associated with Holi is the legend of Holika and Prahlad. According to the tale, Prahlad, a devotee of Lord Vishnu, was saved from the evil intentions of his demoniac father, Hiranyakashipu, and his sister Holika.

Holika possessed a boon that made her immune to fire, and she tricked Prahlad into sitting on a pyre with her, intending to burn him alive. However, the divine intervention of Lord Vishnu ensured that Prahlad remained unharmed, while Holika was consumed by the very fire she was immune to. This victory of good over evil is celebrated as Holi, with bonfires symbolizing the burning of Holika and the triumph of righteousness.

A Full House of Vibrant Colors

This year, with the addition of my brother's family, our Holi celebrations take on a whole new level of enthusiasm and liveliness. I wrote about Holi 2023 here. The excitement is palpable as we gather in the courtyard, armed with water balloons, colored powders, and an arsenal of playful mischief.

The laughter echoes through the air as we chase each other, smearing colors onto one another's faces and clothing. The joy is contagious, and even the shyest among us cannot resist the urge to join in the revelry. Idika's infectious giggles and her vibrant attire add a touch of innocence to the celebrations, reminding us of the simple pleasures of childhood.

As the day progresses, we gather around the table to savor the flavors of traditional Holi delicacies. The aroma of freshly prepared gujiya and thandai fills the air, and we indulge in the sweet delights, sharing stories and creating memories that will last a lifetime.

A Takeaway for Everyone

Amidst the laughter and the vibrant colors, Holi serves as a reminder of the importance of unity, forgiveness, and the triumph of good over evil. It teaches us to let go of past grievances and embrace the present with open arms, welcoming the colors of joy and happiness into our lives.

As we bid farewell to Holi 2024, our hearts are filled with gratitude for the opportunity to celebrate with our loved ones. The memories of this joyous occasion will forever be etched in our minds, reminding us of the power of family, tradition, and the simple pleasures that bring us together.

On this auspicious occasion, we wish everyone a Happy Holi filled with love, laughter, and vibrant colors that transcend boundaries and unite us all in the spirit of celebration.

· 2 min read
Gaurav Parashar

In Jaipur, Makar Sankranti, also known as Sakrant, transforms the skyline into a mesmerizing canvas adorned with colorful kites, echoing laughter, and the delightful aroma of moong dal pakode. This celebration is not just a festival; it's a spectacle that paints the city in hues of joy.

The Rooftop Extravaganza

Almost every house in Jaipur has its inhabitants perched on the roof, armed with vibrant kites, sipping on chai, munching on moong dal pakode, and playing foot-tapping music on speakers. The atmosphere is electric, and the camaraderie is contagious. It's a sight that captures the essence of community and celebration.

Kite-Flying Chronicles

For me, flying a kite on Sakrant is a ritual, a tradition etched in the fabric of my memories. The joy of shouting "Wo kate" as you cut through someone else's kite is unparalleled. It's not just a competition; it's a celebration of skill, strategy, and the simple pleasure of connecting with others through a string in the sky.

Sky Lanterns and Evening Magic

As the sun begins to bid adieu, the festivities don't end. Jaipur's evening sky is soon adorned with the soft glow of sky lanterns, creating a magical atmosphere. However, a word of caution – while releasing lanterns is a beautiful tradition, safety is paramount. Ensure they are flame-resistant and won't pose a risk of burning and falling.

The Dark Side: Birds and Safety

As much as we revel in the joy of kite flying, it's essential to acknowledge the darker side. Many birds get injured due to the manja (kite string) and the relentless pursuit of kite enthusiasts. It's a reminder to celebrate responsibly and be mindful of the impact our festivities may have on the environment.

Makar Sankranti Across India

While Jaipur's Sakrant is a spectacle like no other, Makar Sankranti is celebrated with unique fervor across India. From kite-flying in Gujarat to the grandeur of the Ganga Sagar Mela in West Bengal, each region adds its flavor to this harvest festival. It's a testament to the cultural diversity and rich tapestry that defines our incredible nation.

Makar Sankranti in Jaipur is more than a day of festivities; it's an expression of joy, unity, and cultural pride. As we revel in the merriment, let's also be mindful of the impact on our surroundings and ensure that the celebration is a harmonious blend of tradition and responsibility.

· 2 min read
Gaurav Parashar

As we bid adieu to 2023 and usher in the promising dawn of 2024, I found myself reflecting on the simple joys that can make a significant impact on our daily lives. One such joy revealed itself during a recent visit to a friend's beautifully adorned house, adorned with a lush array of indoor plants. The sight was not only visually pleasing but also sparked a newfound interest in bringing a touch of nature into my own living space.

Taking inspiration from that delightful experience, I decided to kickstart the last day of 2023 with a visit to a nearby nursery on Golf Course Extension road. With enthusiasm, I selected six vibrant plants, each bringing its unique charm to my home. The act of choosing and placing these green companions felt like a meaningful way to welcome the fresh beginnings of the upcoming year.

Indoor Plants Purchase in Gurgaon, 31 December 2023

These indoor plants, aside from being aesthetically pleasing, bring numerous benefits to our living spaces. They not only improve air quality by absorbing pollutants but also contribute to a sense of well-being and tranquility. Additionally, studies suggest that the presence of indoor plants can enhance productivity and reduce stress levels, creating a more conducive environment for work and relaxation.

Equally essential is the incorporation of greenery on balconies. Balcony plants not only serve as a natural extension of your living space but also provide a breath of fresh air in the urban hustle. The touch of nature on your balcony can transform it into a serene retreat, offering moments of solace amidst the bustling city life.

One of my newfound interests involves experimenting with propagating the snake plant, a popular and resilient choice for indoor spaces. Through the division of its roots and careful leaf cutting, I aim to expand my collection and share the joy of nurturing new life within the confines of my home.

As we step into 2024, let's embrace the opportunity to make our living spaces not just a shelter but a sanctuary. The simple act of incorporating indoor and balcony plants can create a harmonious and refreshing atmosphere, contributing to a healthier and more vibrant lifestyle.

· 2 min read
Gaurav Parashar

As the air fills with the sweet melody of jingles and the aroma of cinnamon and pine, it's that time of the year again – Christmas! But, have you ever wondered where Santa Claus and Christmas really come from?

The Origins of Santa Claus

The story of Santa Claus finds its roots in the generosity and kindness exemplified by Saint Nicholas, a Christian bishop in the 4th century. His legendary acts of gift-giving and compassion laid the foundation for the modern-day Santa Claus.

Santa Claus also draws inspiration from various mythological figures, such as the Dutch Sinterklaas and the English Father Christmas. These characters, often depicted as benevolent gift-givers, contributed to the evolving persona of Santa Claus.

The True Meaning of Christmas

Christmas is a celebration that transcends religious and cultural boundaries. It symbolizes the birth of Jesus Christ, a beacon of love and light in the world. Beyond the decorations and gifts, Christmas is a time for kindness, compassion, and spreading joy.

Reflecting on the true meaning of Christmas can be found in timeless readings such as Charles Dickens, A Christmas Carol and the biblical accounts of Jesus' birth in the Gospel of Luke. These readings capture the spirit of generosity and redemption that defines the season.

Christmas Celebrations in India

In India, Christmas is celebrated with diverse traditions and vibrant festivities. From attending midnight masses to exchanging gifts and indulging in festive feasts, the spirit of Christmas resonates across communities, transcending religious affiliations. One profound learning from Christmas in the Indian context is the unity in diversity it fosters. Regardless of religious backgrounds, people come together to celebrate the spirit of giving, emphasizing the universal values of love, compassion, and togetherness.

As we unwrap the presents and hang the stockings, let's not forget the true magic of Christmas – a season of love, kindness, and joy. Whether inspired by the biblical narrative or the enchanting tales of Santa Claus, Christmas serves as a reminder to embrace the warmth of humanity and to share our blessings with others. So, this Christmas, let's celebrate the essence of giving, making it a season to cherish and remember.

· 2 min read
Gaurav Parashar

Living in Gurgaon for an extended period has exposed me to its vibrant culture, diverse communities, and rapid urbanization. However, one aspect that has always eluded my understanding is the city's complex layout, especially the intricate division into sectors. If someone were to mention Sector 15, my lack of spatial and directional awareness about its location is embarrassingly apparent.

To solve the mystery of Gurgaon's sectors, I decided to delve deeper into the city's planning and development. I realized that each sector holds a unique identity, and comprehending their layout is key to navigating the city effectively.

  • Firstly, the sheer size of each sector remained a vague concept for me. I wondered about the area each sector covered and the overall expanse of the city. Moreover, the absence of a clear understanding of the metro routes, parks, and green belts further added to my confusion.

  • In an attempt to gain clarity, I turned to the official Development Plan of Gurgaon. This comprehensive map outlined the segmentation of the city into distinct legs: Sector 1-23, Sector 24-37, Sector 37-95, and Sector 96-115. Armed with this map, I started to decipher the intricate network of sectors, slowly connecting the dots that had previously eluded me.

  • Understanding the development plan shed light on the meticulous planning that went into shaping Gurgaon. The city has grown leaps and bounds, transforming into a corporate hub and a residential haven. The government's vision for Gurgaon reflects in the systematic division of sectors, each contributing to the city's unique character.

As I explored further, I discovered the strategic placement of metro routes, providing a lifeline to commuters across sectors. The green belts and parks, essential for maintaining a balance between urban development and environmental sustainability, started making more sense in the grand scheme of Gurgaon's growth. Gurgaon's journey from a satellite town to a bustling metropolis is awe-inspiring. The government's mission to create a well-planned city with world-class infrastructure is evident in the meticulous planning of sectors, ensuring a harmonious blend of residential, commercial, and recreational spaces. As I continue to explore and familiarize myself with the city's layout, I am gaining a newfound appreciation for the thoughtfulness that went into shaping this dynamic urban landscape.

· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

As the clock strikes midnight on December 31st, people around the world come together to bid farewell to the old and welcome in the new. The tradition of celebrating New Year's Eve is a universal phenomenon, deeply ingrained in the fabric of cultures across the globe. We are approaching New Year's 2023 soon, and I delved into the fascinating history behind the inception of this tradition and explore the diverse customs and celebrations that have evolved over time.

The Origins of New Year

The concept of marking the passage of time and celebrating the start of a new year is ancient, with roots in various cultures. The earliest recorded festivities can be traced back to ancient Mesopotamia, where the Babylonians held a grand 11-day festival in March during the vernal equinox. The Romans later adopted a similar practice, with March 1st initially marking the new year before Julius Caesar's calendar reform shifted it to January 1st.

The Julian and Gregorian calendars

The transition from the Julian to the Gregorian calendar by Pope Gregory XIII in 1582 solidified January 1st as the official start of the new year in the Western world. This change aimed to align the calendar with the solar year more accurately, marking a significant shift in New Year's celebrations.

Cultural Perspectives

Chinese New Year (Spring Festival)

In China, the lunar calendar dictates the date of the New Year, typically falling between January 21 and February 20. The Spring Festival, as it is known, is marked by vibrant parades, dragon dances, and elaborate feasts. Each year is associated with an animal from the Chinese zodiac, adding a unique element to the celebration.

Diwali, the Hindu New Year

In India, the Hindu New Year, or Diwali, is celebrated with lights, fireworks, and family gatherings. Diwali signifies the triumph of light over darkness and good over evil. Families clean and decorate their homes, light oil lamps, and exchange sweets during this joyous occasion.

Rosh Hashanah, the Jewish New Year

Rosh Hashanah marks the beginning of the Jewish High Holy Days. It is a time of reflection, repentance, and prayer. Traditional customs include blowing the shofar (a ram's horn), eating symbolic foods like apples dipped in honey for a sweet new year, and sharing festive meals with family and friends.

Modern Celebrations

In contemporary times, New Year's Eve is a global spectacle marked by parties, fireworks, and the iconic countdowns in major cities. Times Square in New York City and the fireworks over Sydney Harbour are iconic symbols of the worldwide celebration, emphasizing unity and shared hope for a better future.

New Year's Eve is a time-honored tradition that has transcended cultural and historical boundaries. From ancient rituals rooted in agricultural cycles to modern celebrations that emphasize unity and renewal, the diverse customs associated with New Year's Eve showcase the richness of human culture. As we welcome each new year, let us continue to appreciate and respect the myriad ways in which people across the globe come together to celebrate new beginnings.

· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

Diwali, the Festival of Lights, is not just about illuminating our homes but also our hearts. This year, as I celebrated Diwali with my family, it was a vivid reminder of how these moments add depth and perspective to our lives, drawing us closer in a bond of love and shared traditions.

The Heartwarming Glow of Togetherness

Diwali at home begins with the family coming together. It's a reunion of sorts, a precious time where the hustle of everyday life pauses, and we immerse ourselves in the warmth of familial love. Decorating our home with lights and diyas, we literally and metaphorically cast away the darkness, embracing the light of wisdom and goodness.

Parashars in Jaipur, Diwali 2023

The Artistic Touch of Rangoli

The vibrant colors of Rangoli at our doorstep are not just a welcome sign for guests but also a creative expression of joy. Each design, carefully crafted by the hands of my family, symbolizes the harmony and diversity of our thoughts and emotions, painting a picture of unity in diversity.

The Divine Essence of Pooja

The Lakshmi Pooja is the spiritual centerpiece of our Diwali celebration. As we gather to offer prayers, there's a profound sense of peace and gratitude. This ritual is a gentle reminder of the higher purposes of life and the blessings we often take for granted.

The Crackling Energy of Firecrackers

The night sky ablaze with fireworks is a spectacle of joy. Each burst of color in the sky reminds us of life's fleeting yet beautiful moments. However, we also remain mindful of the environment, opting for eco-friendly crackers, symbolizing our responsibility towards Mother Earth.

The Sweetness of Shared Delights

Diwali is incomplete without the array of sweets. Exchanging these delights with neighbors and friends is more than a tradition; it's a celebration of community and shared happiness. Each sweet, meticulously prepared by family members, carries the flavor of love and the sweetness of togetherness.

The Bonding and the Lessons

In the hustle of decorating, praying, feasting, and celebrating, there's an underlying current of life lessons being passed down. Spending time with family not only strengthens our bonds but also instills values of sharing, caring, and appreciating the simple joys of life.

Oshee Parashar, Diwali 2023

As we conclude the festivities and return to our daily routines, the essence of Diwali lingers - a reminder that life is brighter and more meaningful when shared with loved ones.

· 2 min read
Gaurav Parashar

In the heart of festive lights, when the moon is but a crescent, Lies a day, less sung, yet bright, known as Choti Diwali, resplendent.

A prelude to the grandeur, Diwali's little sibling in time, It sparkles in its own allure, setting the stage for the sublime.

Diyas: The Beacons of Hope and Light

In every nook, in every lane, small lamps begin their dance, Diya's flame, a silent bane, against darkness's vast expanse. These tiny lights, in rows so neat, whisper tales of hope and might, In their glow, hearts skip a beat, painting dreams in golden light.

Mithai: The Sweetness of Tradition

Sweets, oh mithai, in platters laid, a symphony of taste and color, Gulab jamun, barfi's parade, in sweetness, there is no other. Each bite a burst of joy and cheer, a celebration of life's flavor, In Choti Diwali's ambiance dear, mithai is a delight to savor.

Patakha: The Echo of Festivity

And in the skies, patakhas roar, echoing the joy below, A spectacle of sound and color, in the festive night's glow. Though brief their burst, their message clear, life is a moment's flicker, Choti Diwali, year by year, makes our collective heartbeats quicker.

Relevance: The Heart of Choti Diwali

Not just a day for lights and play, but a moment of reflection, A pause before the grand display, a link to the past's connection. It's in these small, quiet joys we find, the essence of our culture's story, Choti Diwali, in heart and mind, a preface to Diwali's glory.