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· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

Knee pain is a common issue among individuals aged 60 and above, often leading to the need for knee replacement surgery. The primary cause of chronic knee pain in seniors is osteoarthritis, a degenerative joint disease where the protective cartilage that cushions the ends of bones wears down over time. The knee joint consists of bones, cartilage, ligaments, and synovial fluid, all working together to provide smooth movement. When the cartilage deteriorates, bones begin to rub against each other, causing inflammation, stiffness, and sharp, shooting pain. Other contributing factors include rheumatoid arthritis, previous injuries, obesity, and genetic predisposition. As the cartilage gap narrows, mobility becomes restricted, making even simple activities like walking or climbing stairs painful.

The structure of the knee plays a crucial role in understanding why pain occurs. The joint is supported by the femur, tibia, and patella, with menisci acting as shock absorbers between them. Over time, wear and tear reduce the thickness of these menisci, leading to bone-on-bone contact. Synovial fluid, which lubricates the joint, also decreases with age, further exacerbating friction. This mechanical stress results in inflammation, swelling, and chronic discomfort. In severe cases, bone spurs develop, worsening the pain. When conservative treatments like painkillers, physical therapy, and injections no longer provide relief, knee replacement surgery becomes necessary. The procedure involves replacing the damaged joint with an artificial implant, restoring mobility and reducing pain.

Preventing knee pain in old age requires proactive measures starting in middle age. Maintaining a healthy weight reduces stress on the knee joints, slowing cartilage degeneration. Regular low-impact exercises such as swimming, cycling, and walking strengthen the muscles around the knee, providing better support. Strength training focusing on quadriceps and hamstrings improves joint stability, while flexibility exercises like yoga prevent stiffness. Avoiding high-impact activities that strain the knees, such as running on hard surfaces or excessive squatting, can also help. A diet rich in anti-inflammatory foods, including omega-3 fatty acids, leafy greens, and nuts, supports joint health. Additionally, wearing proper footwear with good arch support minimizes unnecessary pressure on the knees.

For those already experiencing knee pain, early intervention can delay or prevent the need for surgery. Physical therapy improves range of motion and reduces discomfort, while assistive devices like braces or canes alleviate pressure. Over-the-counter pain relievers and corticosteroid injections offer temporary relief, but long-term solutions involve lifestyle adjustments. If surgery becomes inevitable, modern advancements in knee replacement ensure high success rates with faster recovery times. Post-surgery rehabilitation is critical, involving guided exercises to restore strength and flexibility. While knee replacement is a viable solution for severe arthritis, preventive care in earlier years remains the most effective way to maintain joint health and mobility in old age.

· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

I have never been someone who paid much attention to beauty or skincare routines. Like most Indian men, I grew up with minimal exposure to personal care beyond the basics—soap, shampoo, and the occasional moisturizer. The idea of a structured grooming regimen always felt foreign, something that belonged to a different world. My mornings were simple: wash my face, brush my teeth, and get on with the day. The beauty aisle in stores was a place I walked past without a second glance, filled with products whose purposes I neither understood nor cared to explore.

That changed when Apple Support sent me a guide on cleaning AirPods, which mentioned micellar water as a recommended solution. I had heard the term before, mostly from my wife, who uses it as part of her skincare routine. Until then, I had assumed it was just another cosmetic product with a fancy name. The fact that Apple, a brand I trust for tech, endorsed it for cleaning electronics made me reconsider its utility. I read up about how micellar water works—its ability to attract dirt and oil without harsh chemicals. It struck me how little I knew about something so commonplace in many people’s lives.

The beauty industry is vast, with an overwhelming array of products, each serving a specific purpose. For someone like me, who has never engaged with it beyond the bare essentials, the segment feels daunting. The terminology, the variety, the claims—everything seems designed to appeal to those already invested in self-care rituals. Yet, there’s a reason why brands in this space command such loyalty and premium pricing. Trust, safety, and quality matter when products are applied to the skin, and the best companies have spent decades building that credibility. My brief interaction with micellar water made me realize how much I’ve overlooked simply because it wasn’t part of my world.

Now, after cleaning my AirPods with micellar water, I’m waiting to see if the shrill noise they’ve been making disappears. More than that, this small episode has made me curious about the broader beauty and personal care industry. It’s a sector that thrives on precision, science, and consumer trust—elements that resonate beyond just cosmetics. Maybe I’ll learn more about it, not because I plan to adopt an elaborate routine, but because understanding things outside my usual scope is always worthwhile. For now, though, I’ll settle for functional earbuds and the quiet satisfaction of having tried something new.

· 2 min read
Gaurav Parashar

Today, as part of my birthday resolution, I decided to take a break from Instagram and Facebook. While I stopped using Facebook years ago, Instagram has remained a part of my daily routine—mostly for sharing workout updates, exchanging memes with friends, and occasionally scrolling through reels. The decision wasn’t driven by frustration or a dramatic need to disconnect, but rather by curiosity. I want to observe how my habits, focus, and time allocation change without the passive consumption of social media. The goal is to see how long I can go without it and whether the absence makes any noticeable difference.

The first thing I expect to change is the automatic scrolling. Normally, idle moments—waiting for a meeting, standing in line, or taking a short break—default to Instagram. Without it, I anticipate filling those gaps differently: perhaps reading, observing my surroundings, or just letting my mind rest. I’ve noticed in the past how even brief social media checks can fracture concentration, making it harder to return to tasks with clarity. If that distraction is removed, I wonder whether my focus will improve or if I’ll simply replace it with another form of stimulation.

Another aspect I’m watching is how I share updates. Posting workouts on Instagram has become a habit, almost like a public accountability tool. Without it, I’ll need to see whether my motivation to exercise changes when the validation of likes is gone. Similarly, memes and articles I would have shared immediately will now either be saved or left unshared. I suspect that without the instant gratification of engagement, my interactions will become more intentional. The reflex to document and broadcast might fade, making way for more deliberate communication.

This experiment starts today, and I have no fixed endpoint in mind. It’s not a permanent departure, just an observation. I’m curious to see whether the absence of these platforms leads to meaningful shifts in my daily life—less distraction, more presence, or even just a clearer sense of why I used them in the first place. Whether the break lasts a week or longer, the act of stepping back itself feels like a worthwhile exercise in awareness.

· 2 min read
Gaurav Parashar

Today is my birthday, and I am spending it with my family. My parents have traveled from Jaipur to be here with me and Swati, which makes the day more meaningful. Birthdays are often seen as personal milestones, but for me, they are an opportunity to reflect on the people who have shaped my life. Having my parents around brings a sense of comfort and familiarity, something that is harder to come by as life gets busier. We stepped out for a family dinner, a simple yet meaningful way to mark the occasion. There is something about sharing a meal that makes moments feel more significant, especially when surrounded by those who matter most.

Gratitude is the prevailing emotion today. Birthdays tend to prompt reflection, and this year, I find myself appreciating the small things—health, stability, and the ability to spend time with loved ones. It is easy to get caught up in daily routines and forget how much these ordinary moments matter. Celebrating with family reinforces how fortunate I am to have their support. Birthdays are also a reminder of how quickly time passes, making it important to acknowledge the present rather than always looking ahead.

I want to thank everyone who has reached out with birthday wishes. Messages from friends, colleagues, and acquaintances add warmth to the day. Even a brief note can make a difference, and I appreciate the time people took to send their thoughts. Birthdays are one of those rare occasions when connections feel more intentional, and I do not take that for granted. It is also a good reminder to reciprocate the same kindness when others celebrate their milestones.

As the day winds down, I am left with a quiet sense of contentment. Birthdays do not need grand gestures to feel special. Sometimes, it is the presence of family, a good meal, and the recognition of another year lived that makes it worthwhile. Today was simple, but it was exactly what I needed. Here’s to another year, hopefully filled with more learning, growth, and meaningful moments.

· 2 min read
Gaurav Parashar

My AirPods Pro were a gift from my sister-in-law, and initially, they lived up to Apple’s reputation—reliable noise cancellation, good sound quality, and a comfortable fit. But recently, the left AirPod developed a shrill, high-pitched noise, especially when I run. The sound is so sharp that it renders the earbud unusable. I’ve tried all the standard fixes: resetting them, cleaning the contacts, adjusting the ear tips, and switching between noise cancellation modes. Nothing worked. It’s frustrating when a premium product, especially one given as a thoughtful gift, fails unexpectedly.

The issue isn’t just the inconvenience—it’s the lack of durability. I didn’t expect these to last forever, but I assumed they’d hold up longer than they have. For a high-end product, the AirPods Pro should offer better longevity. I’ve used cheaper earbuds (Samsung Earbuds) that lasted years without such problems. The fact that this happened without any physical damage or misuse makes it worse. It feels like a manufacturing defect, something that shouldn’t happen with Apple’s reputation for quality.

I reached out to Apple Support, hoping for a quick resolution or replacement. Their response followed the usual script—troubleshooting steps I’d already tried, then a suggestion to visit an Apple Store. While they weren’t unhelpful, I was surprised that a premium product would fail this soon and that the support process didn’t feel more accommodating. If Apple positions itself as a leader in tech, its products should last, and its service should be more proactive when they don’t.

This experience has made me hesitant about future Apple audio purchases. When a product fails prematurely, especially one that was a gift, it’s disappointing. I’ll likely look at other brands for my next pair of earbuds, prioritizing durability and customer service. For now, I’m left with an expensive pair of AirPods where only one side works properly—a letdown for what was supposed to be a high-quality device.

· 2 min read
Gaurav Parashar

Summer nights bring a certain stillness that makes late walks after dinner particularly refreshing. The heat of the day has faded, and the streets are quieter, making it easier to move without the usual distractions. Leaving the phone and earphones behind forces a different kind of awareness. Instead of music or podcasts filling the silence, the sounds of the neighborhood take over—conversations from balconies, the occasional bark of a dog, or the rustle of leaves in a light breeze. There is no agenda, no need to rush, just the simple act of walking with no destination in mind.

The absence of a screen or headphones shifts attention outward. Without the constant pull of notifications, the mind settles into observing rather than reacting. People sitting outside their homes, children playing despite the late hour, street vendors packing up—these small scenes become noticeable in a way they usually aren’t. Walking without distractions creates space for unstructured thought, letting the mind process the day without forcing it. The rhythm of steps becomes a kind of meditation, steady and predictable, allowing thoughts to surface and pass without urgency.

There is also a practical benefit to walking late in the evening. After a full meal, movement aids digestion, and the cooler air makes the effort minimal. Unlike daytime walks, where the sun can be oppressive, the night offers relief. The body adjusts to the slower pace, muscles loosening, breath steadying. A shower afterward washes away the lingering heat of the day, making sleep come easier. The combination of movement, fresh air, and a clear head sets the stage for better rest, something that is often hard to achieve during busy weeks.

Late night walks are not about exploration or exercise in the traditional sense. They are a way to disconnect from the noise of the day and reconnect with the immediate surroundings. The streets look different at night—less crowded, less hurried. There is no need to fill the time with anything other than walking. The simplicity of it is what makes it valuable. No special equipment, no strict routine, just an open-ended pause before the day ends. It’s a habit that costs nothing but offers a quiet kind of clarity.

· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

A recent show by Kunal Kamra sparked outrage among certain groups, leading to debates about free speech and the role of comedy in political discourse. Kamra, known for his sharp wit and politically charged humor, has always been vocal about his opinions, often targeting those in power. His latest set, which was recorded and circulated online, drew criticism for its unapologetic commentary on current political figures and ideologies. The backlash was swift, with some calling for censorship, while others defended his right to express dissent through comedy. Having attended a version of the same set in Gurgaon—unrecorded and not uploaded to YouTube—I can confirm that the content was consistent with his usual style: fearless, direct, and unsparing in its critique.

Kunal Kamra’s comedy is not for those who prefer neutral or apolitical humor. His sets are deliberate in their messaging, blending satire with pointed observations about governance, media bias, and societal hypocrisy. Unlike many comedians who avoid controversy by sticking to safe topics, Kamra leans into it, making his work both refreshing and polarizing. The outrage against him is unsurprising, given how divisive political humor can be in today’s climate. However, the intensity of the backlash also highlights why his voice is necessary. In a space where self-censorship is common, Kamra’s refusal to soften his stance sets him apart.

The criticism against Kamra often centers on the idea that comedians should remain neutral or avoid “offending” certain groups. But comedy has always been a tool for dissent, from George Carlin to Dave Chappelle. The expectation that humor should be harmless ignores its historical role in challenging power structures. Kamra’s work follows this tradition, using comedy to question authority rather than simply entertain. While not everyone will agree with his views, the attempt to silence him is more concerning than the jokes themselves. Free expression in comedy allows for necessary conversations, even—or especially—when they make people uncomfortable.

As the outrage settles, the larger question remains: should comedians temper their material to avoid backlash, or is there value in unfiltered, opinionated humor? Kunal Kamra’s approach may not be universally liked, but it serves an important function in a democracy. We need more comedians who are willing to take risks, speak truth to power, and provoke thought, even at the cost of controversy. The alternative—a sanitized, inoffensive comedy scene—would be far less meaningful. The outrage will pass, but the need for fearless voices in comedy will not.

· 2 min read
Gaurav Parashar

During a recent conversation with a friend, we discussed the effectiveness of LinkedIn as a platform for professional growth. He argued that while many users post consistently to build authority, generate sales, or become Top Voices, the actual outcomes often fall short. The content produced primarily benefits LinkedIn by supplying free, user-generated material, but the return for individuals—whether in sales, hiring, or influence—seems minimal. His perspective was that despite the effort invested, the platform’s algorithm and saturation dilute the impact, making it difficult for most to achieve meaningful results.

LinkedIn has evolved into a space where professional branding and visibility are prioritized, but the tangible benefits remain questionable. Many users post with clear objectives—networking, lead generation, or recruitment—yet the conversion rates are often low. The platform thrives on engagement, rewarding viral content over substantive discussions, which shifts focus from quality to quantity. My friend noted that even after months of consistent posting, his team saw little improvement in hiring quality candidates or driving sales. The disconnect between effort and outcome suggests that LinkedIn’s value may be overstated for certain professional goals.

The discussion also touched on the performative nature of LinkedIn content. Posts are frequently tailored to fit trending formats—humble brags, motivational anecdotes, or industry hot takes—rather than fostering genuine dialogue. This creates an environment where authenticity is secondary to visibility, and the pressure to conform reduces the platform’s utility. While some users do benefit from increased reach or opportunities, they are often outliers. For most, the time spent crafting posts could be better allocated to direct outreach, skill development, or other channels with higher ROI.

Ultimately, the conversation highlighted the need for a more critical approach to LinkedIn. Rather than treating it as a primary tool for professional growth, it may be more effective as a supplementary channel. The platform’s strengths—networking and industry updates—are still valuable, but expectations should be tempered. Not every post will lead to a business deal or career breakthrough, and that’s okay. Recognizing LinkedIn’s limitations can help users allocate their time more strategically, focusing on actions that yield measurable results rather than chasing algorithmic approval.

· 2 min read
Gaurav Parashar

Summer has a way of drying up the world around us. The flowers that bloomed so effortlessly in spring now struggle under the heat, their colors fading, their petals curling at the edges. A few days ago, I stopped to smell the roses near my apartment, knowing it might be the last time before the season changes. The scent was faint but still present, a reminder of what freshness feels like before the relentless sun takes over completely. The landscaping in my society is well-maintained, with flower beds that cycle through different blooms as the months pass.

The shift in flora during summer is noticeable. Plants that thrived in cooler weather now wilt, while hardier species take their place. The soil cracks under the heat, and even the most resilient flowers require more water to survive. I’ve seen this pattern repeat every year, yet it still feels abrupt when the first few blooms disappear. The change isn’t just visual—it’s in the air. The scent of flowers becomes scarce, replaced by the dry, dusty smell of warm pavement and parched earth. For now, though, there’s still a hint of fragrance if you pause long enough to notice.

I don’t often stop to appreciate these small details, but when I do, it’s usually because I sense an ending. The flowers won’t last much longer, and neither will this particular phase of the year. Soon, the monsoons will arrive, bringing a different kind of life to the plants. But for now, summer dominates, reshaping the environment in its own way. The flowers that remain are survivors, adapting to the heat, their presence a brief respite before the next seasonal shift.

If you have flowers where you live, take a moment to enjoy them. The season moves quickly, and what’s here today might be gone tomorrow. The roses in my society won’t stay this way forever—soon, they’ll be replaced by something else, something that can withstand the coming months. Until then, I’ll keep noticing them, knowing that each time might be the last for a while.

· 2 min read
Gaurav Parashar

I visited Pahalgam in 2007 with my family. It was a quiet, serene place, nestled in the Himalayas with lush green meadows and the Lidder River flowing gently through it. The town was a refuge from the noise of cities, a place where families, honeymooners, and adventure seekers gathered without fear. We stayed in a small wooden cabin, took pony rides to Betaab Valley, and drank kahwa while watching shepherds guide their flocks. There was no hint of unrest, no visible tension—just the calm beauty of Kashmir that so many travelers cherish.

Yesterday's terrorist attack in Pahalgam is a grim reminder of how fragile peace can be. Innocent lives were lost, families shattered, and a place once known for its tranquility has again been stained with violence. It is despicable—targeting tourists and locals who have no part in political conflicts. The brutality of such acts is not just an attack on individuals but on the very idea of coexistence. Kashmir has suffered too much, and every such incident pushes back the possibility of normalcy, leaving scars that take generations to heal.

I remember the shopkeepers smiling as they sold handmade carpets, the children playing near the riverbanks, and the quiet hum of daily life uninterrupted by fear. Today, those memories are overshadowed by the knowledge that terror can strike anywhere, even in places that feel untouched by the world’s chaos. It is a stark reminder that no region is immune to extremism, and the cost is always borne by ordinary people who just want to live without looking over their shoulders.

May the departed souls find peace, and may those responsible face justice. The only way forward is to reject violence entirely, to rebuild trust, and to ensure that places like Pahalgam remain safe for travelers and locals alike. The people of Kashmir deserve better—a life free from fear, where the mountains and rivers are symbols of beauty, not battlegrounds. Until then, we can only hope, remember, and refuse to let terror rewrite the story of a land that has already endured too much.