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· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

Sometimes the question surfaces without warning — what is the point of it all. It does not arrive with a dramatic setting but quietly, often on an ordinary day when tasks feel repetitive and energy runs low. Life has a way of catching up through small pressures that accumulate until they feel heavier than they should. In those moments, thinking too long about meaning only seems to deepen the weight. The better response has always been to step outside, put on running shoes, and go for a run. Movement has a way of clearing the mind that reflection alone cannot manage, and with each step the question softens into something less urgent.

Running creates a rhythm that simplifies thought. Breathing aligns with the pace, and the body settles into a cycle that does not demand anything beyond the next step. The mind, in turn, begins to let go of scattered concerns. It is not that answers appear during the run, but rather that the need for immediate answers fades. By the time the distance is covered, the same problems remain, but they are no longer disorganized. Running makes them feel more manageable, as though the body has absorbed some of the restlessness that the mind could not carry alone.

I notice that the clarity from running does not come from distraction but from a form of grounding. The physical act requires enough attention to pull thought away from looping questions, yet it also leaves space for reflection to settle in the background. It is this balance that shifts perspective. Questions like “what is the point of it all” do not disappear, but they lose their sharpness. Instead, they become part of a wider view where daily actions, even small ones, are seen as sufficient reasons to keep moving. The run demonstrates that action itself can be an answer, even when words cannot explain it fully.

The effect of such runs is temporary, but repetition strengthens the habit. Each time life catches up in an unexpected way, choosing to run builds a pattern of responding with movement rather than paralysis. Over time, this becomes less about exercise and more about resilience. The body learns to carry tension, release it, and return with clearer thought. It shows that while meaning may not be fixed, the act of moving forward consistently can sustain a sense of stability. That, in its own way, feels like a point worth holding onto.

In the end, I think the question itself is unavoidable, but the way it is handled makes the difference. Waiting for perfect clarity can be exhausting, while choosing to run offers a simpler, repeatable solution. The miles do not provide grand answers, but they prove that continuing has value even without resolution. That may be all the point there is: to keep moving, to clear the head when it feels heavy, and to trust that meaning can emerge gradually through action. The run does not solve life, but it allows me to live it with steadier ground.

· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

Mont Blanc as a brand often reminds me of how quality becomes more than just a measure of durability or performance. It turns into a cultural marker, something that people associate with tradition, refinement, and trust. Holding a Mont Blanc pen, for example, is not only about writing but about experiencing an object that has been carefully designed and manufactured to meet a standard higher than necessity. This pursuit of quality is what sets certain countries apart in the way they are perceived. Switzerland, in particular, has made finesse part of its national identity, whether through watches, tools, or precision craftsmanship. Appreciating Mont Blanc becomes a way of appreciating that culture of meticulousness.

The Swiss example is striking because quality there is not treated as an occasional achievement but as a consistent expectation. Watches are the most visible part of this identity, yet the same principle extends to knives, chocolate, and even public infrastructure. The focus is less on mass production and more on precision, which in turn builds a reputation that lasts across generations. When someone speaks of Swiss finesse, it is understood as an assurance of detail and care. Mont Blanc products, though not limited to Switzerland, resonate with this same idea of precision. They belong to a tradition where the object itself carries cultural meaning beyond function.

It is interesting to see how such quality becomes part of global culture. A Mont Blanc pen is not necessary for writing, yet owning one signifies an appreciation for craft. In that way, objects become symbols of values. Swiss finesse, as seen in design and engineering, influences how other nations think about their own products. Countries known for quality build trust in their exports, and this trust shapes both reputation and economy. What begins as attention to detail in manufacturing grows into a national brand, and eventually into cultural identity. That is why Mont Blanc feels connected to a larger narrative about how societies measure themselves through the things they produce.

The relationship between quality and culture also raises the question of how habits are formed. In places where quality is expected, consumers hold producers accountable, and producers in turn train their workforce to maintain standards. This cycle strengthens over time, embedding itself into education, business practice, and even everyday life. Swiss finesse, then, is not only about luxury but about an entire system of discipline and precision. Mont Blanc stands as a visible emblem of this, but the deeper reality is that quality in such cultures is not reserved for high-end goods. It runs through simple objects as well, which quietly reinforce the same values.

Thinking about Mont Blanc and Swiss finesse leaves me with a broader appreciation for how quality influences culture and identity. It shows that products can be more than tools—they can embody principles that define how people view themselves and how others view them. In a world where speed and scale often dominate, the insistence on detail and endurance carries its own weight. Quality, when pursued consistently, becomes cultural heritage. Mont Blanc is only one example, but it points to the larger truth that finesse, once established, shapes the reputation of a country as much as any political or historical achievement.

· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

Dushera always brings a reminder of how festivals carry both cultural meaning and personal reflection. It marks the victory of good over evil, most often remembered through the story of Lord Rama defeating Ravana, but its importance extends beyond the myth itself. The act of celebrating Dushera is about affirming values that persist through time—truth, discipline, and resilience. In many places, effigies of Ravana are burned, and that symbolic act connects communities in a shared acknowledgment that wrongdoing can be overcome. Saying happy Dushera is not only a greeting but also a recognition of why the festival exists, as it brings people back to the idea of choosing righteousness in daily life.

The festival also represents the conclusion of Navratri, tying together ten days of devotion and fasting with a celebration that unites families and neighborhoods. For those who observe, this transition carries a sense of renewal. It shows how cultural rhythms are set to remind people of cycles of effort and reward, devotion and joy. In that sense, Dushera does not stand alone but is part of a sequence of festivals that guide both community and individual through the year. It is important because it helps to mark time with meaning, ensuring that tradition remains woven into modern life.

Remembering the story itself is significant because it is less about the historical figure of Ravana and more about the symbolism he represents. Arrogance, greed, and misuse of power are traits that continue to exist in society, and the burning of his effigy serves as a collective act of rejecting those qualities. At the same time, Rama’s victory highlights the value of patience, strategy, and trust in allies. These lessons are carried forward not as rigid rules but as cultural memory, shaping the way people interpret moral choices in the present. The importance of Dushera lies in its ability to keep these reminders active, not as distant mythology but as living tradition.

On a personal level, festivals like Dushera often bring a pause from routine. Even without participating in the larger gatherings, there is an atmosphere of reflection that settles in. It becomes an occasion to think about where personal struggles lie and what patterns need to be discarded. The symbolic burning of negativity can be understood at the level of individual habits, making the festival both communal and personal. In that way, Dushera offers a chance to align private life with broader cultural symbolism, creating a bridge between inward reflection and outward celebration.

This year, wishing happy Dushera feels like an acknowledgment of both continuity and change. The core meaning of the festival remains intact, but the way it is celebrated adapts to the times. Large gatherings may shift in form, and the methods of observance may vary, yet the essence stays. The importance of Dushera is not measured by the scale of celebration but by the persistence of its message. It endures because the need to affirm truth and resist wrongdoing is always present. Remembering that through festival rituals makes the tradition relevant even today.

· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

I find myself thinking again about Mahatma Gandhi and how his life continues to be a reference point whenever the subject of truth, discipline, or social change arises. His role in the freedom movement is often discussed in broad strokes, but it is the personal side that seems worth revisiting now. Reading about Gandhi always makes me notice how much of his strength came from simplicity and consistency in action. The autobiography The Story of My Experiments with Truth remains a book I have long intended to read in full, but I feel it requires isolation and quiet to absorb properly. It is not a book for skimming but one that needs to be taken in slowly, with pauses to reflect on how ideas of truth and self-discipline can be applied personally.

Gandhi’s approach to life seems far removed from the pace of the present. His insistence on truth as both principle and method feels almost radical today, where compromise is often seen as necessary for progress. His life shows how truth, as he defined it, was not abstract but lived daily in decisions about food, clothing, work, and interaction with others. Remembering him now is less about the image of a national leader and more about the method of living that he practiced, which required awareness and restraint in each action. That is what makes his autobiography more than a historical text; it is a record of practice and failure, with honesty about mistakes.

I think part of what draws me toward reading his book is the possibility of seeing how ideals are tested in ordinary life. Gandhi did not present himself as flawless, but as someone who treated each decision as an experiment. This makes the title accurate and also unusual compared to most political autobiographies. The “experiments” he describes are not grand achievements but small steps in diet, faith, and self-control. To read it requires a willingness to slow down and accept that insight comes not from dramatic victories but from repeated attempts to live according to chosen principles. That is why I keep postponing the book until I can find enough quiet to give it the attention it deserves.

Isolation seems essential for this reading because Gandhi’s focus was always on internal discipline before external action. The lessons about patience, fasting, and simplicity will probably feel clearer in silence than in distraction. Reading such a work in peace would allow me to place it against my own life without noise. The calm setting would also match the pace of the writing, which, from what I have read in parts, does not rush. It demands reflection and perhaps even discomfort, because living truthfully often means confronting where one falls short. In that way, the book might serve less as a biography of Gandhi and more as a mirror for the reader.

Remembering Gandhi on days like this leaves me thinking that his relevance is not tied only to political history but to the discipline of everyday living. The idea of truth he pursued can sound distant, but it remains practical when applied in small, personal experiments. Reading The Story of My Experiments with Truth in a quiet space will, I hope, make that clearer. It is not only about remembering what Gandhi stood for but also about examining how those principles can still be tested in a modern context. The book seems less like a monument and more like an invitation, and I want to take it seriously when I finally sit down with it.

· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

September was supposed to be the month to complete 100 kilometers of running, but I ended up closing at 54. Travel first broke the rhythm, and when I returned, a short spell of flu made it harder to get back on track. Looking at the log, I see that there were too many zero days spread through the month, which eventually made the gap impossible to close. Even though I had some longer runs in the later weeks, including a ten-kilometer stretch, the missed days meant the overall count stayed much lower than planned. It is a reminder that consistency counts more than single efforts, and once the pattern breaks, recovery takes time.

The goal of 100 kilometers was not unrealistic because in previous months I have crossed similar marks, but circumstances made September different. Travel disrupts sleep and routine, which affects the body more than I expect. Running after long flights or irregular meals always feels heavier, as if the legs need extra time to find rhythm again. Just when I had started adjusting back, the flu set in and kept me off the track. Even a short break for illness slows everything down because the body needs energy for recovery before it can handle distance. These interruptions stack up quickly, and the mileage gap grows without much warning.

I noticed that the cumulative distance chart reflected the slowdown clearly. Early in the month I had some promising runs, but the middle weeks flattened out with too many consecutive zero entries. The momentum only returned in the last stretch, where I managed consistent three to ten kilometer runs. Still, the late push was not enough to cover what had already been lost. This shows that chasing numbers only at the end of the month rarely works, because endurance does not build that way. Each skipped day accumulates, and a concentrated effort at the end cannot easily replace steady daily work.

There is also the mental side of missing a target. I felt a slight pressure each day I did not run, knowing that the total was falling behind. That pressure sometimes makes the return harder because it turns a simple workout into a task framed by numbers. Yet the number itself is less important than the fact that I continued to run despite setbacks. The body still held up for longer runs after rest, and that is proof of baseline fitness. The experience also made it clearer that training goals need flexibility, especially when external factors like illness intervene.

Finishing the month at 54 kilometers is less than half of what I had aimed for, but it is not wasted effort. It gives me a marker of where I am when circumstances break routine. It also leaves a lesson about adjusting goals when reality changes instead of holding on rigidly to targets. The next month will likely need a fresh plan, built not around chasing a lost milestone but on regaining consistency. Missing the 100 kilometers is a setback, but it is also part of the longer rhythm of running, where progress is measured over months and years, not a single cycle.

· 4 min read
Gaurav Parashar

I keep thinking about how certain activities create bonds that ordinary conversations rarely manage to build. Diving with a PADI group reminded me of this. The rhythm of preparing the gear, the shared silences before entering the water, and the calm after surfacing make the experience unique. People who may not know each other outside the activity suddenly become part of the same rhythm, connected by routine, trust, and a shared objective. In a way, the sea enforces a closeness because the activity requires reliance on one another, and that reliance grows into an unspoken bond. For search visibility, it is worth noting that scuba diving, PADI certification, divers groups, and underwater friendships often overlap in interest and are linked by the same idea of activity-driven connections.

When I look back, some of the strongest friendships I have seen did not come from planned socializing but from common activities that required persistence. Diving is one such activity because it asks for responsibility toward oneself and toward others. Underwater, each diver is aware of their own safety yet equally aware of their partner’s presence. This mutual awareness creates an accountability that is not forced by words but by circumstance. PADI as an organization formalizes this by structuring divers into buddy systems and teams, which ensures that the learning process is social as much as it is technical. The friendships built here do not depend on continuous talk or shared backgrounds. They develop in the gaps between the actions, in the reliance built on something practical.

It is also striking how activity-based bonds are less fragile than bonds formed only around conversation. Words can be misunderstood or forgotten, but actions done together, especially when repeated over time, accumulate into a memory that feels steady. A diver remembers who checked their gear, who gave a reassuring signal, who surfaced alongside them. In this way, diving friendships carry layers of quiet trust. The PADI framework seems designed to cultivate this naturally. Each certification stage involves shared tasks, and over time those who dive together move through difficulty together. This progression cements the bond further. Unlike casual meetups, these are experiences that leave lasting marks on memory, and the friendships formed seem to survive long periods without contact.

The nature of the sea itself also shapes the bond. When underwater, human interaction is stripped to hand signals and eye contact, which forces clarity and minimalism. This reduction sharpens the awareness of the other person’s presence and necessity. Friendship that forms in such conditions is free of unnecessary clutter. It is not about constant expression but about mutual recognition of dependence. Back on land, these divers may go separate ways, but when they meet again, the bond resumes quickly because it is tied not to surface-level stories but to shared immersion. This is true not only of diving but of many activity-based friendships. What is remarkable about diving is how strongly it enforces the rule of interdependence, making the friendships both organic and durable.

It might be because the activity is intense, memorable, and framed by both risk and reward. PADI’s system is global, so divers can meet across countries, yet the bond feels immediate when shared through diving. It is not friendship born of convenience but one born of necessity and trust. That distinction seems to give it resilience. It leaves me thinking that perhaps activity-based friendships hold a different weight because they are less about preference and more about function, yet they grow into genuine care. In the end, the divers group becomes more than just a set of people in wetsuits; it becomes a network of trust created in silence beneath the water.

· 4 min read
Gaurav Parashar

Every Saturday evening turns into a small ritual when the ground near the society fills up with a mix of people carrying bats, balls, and the easy laughter that comes before the start of a game. It is not an organized league or a formal practice session, just a gathering of neighbors who decide to play cricket together. The group ranges from teenagers who are just beginning to understand the rhythm of the game to men in their fifties who have been playing since school days. That range of ages gives the game its shape, where enthusiasm from the young balances against patience and caution from the older players. It is not about competition in the usual sense but about keeping the game alive as a shared activity. The predictable routine of setting aside Saturday evenings for cricket makes it feel like a fixture in the week, something everyone expects and looks forward to.

The game itself is less about following strict rules and more about finding a balance that allows everyone to participate. Overs are shortened, boundaries are improvised, and teams are mixed in a way that keeps the mood light. A 16 year old trying to bowl fast to a player twice his age becomes part of the humor of the match, not a contest. Someone who has not picked up a bat in years gets cheered just for connecting with the ball. The energy is steady and cooperative, with players adjusting their pace to include rather than exclude. This flexible way of playing allows cricket to remain enjoyable even when the skills are uneven across the group. In a way, it reminds me that games can be stripped down to their essentials without losing their meaning.

These evenings also serve as one of the few times when people from the neighborhood gather in an unstructured way. Outside of festivals or society meetings, interactions usually remain limited to greetings or short conversations. Cricket stretches those moments into longer exchanges, first in the field and then afterwards when people stay back to talk. Teenagers who would otherwise be inside on their phones get drawn into conversations with people older than their parents. Retired professionals find themselves sharing tips with school students who are just beginning to plan their studies and careers. It is not that every discussion is profound, but the continuity of weekly contact creates familiarity that grows quietly over time.

For me, the appeal is less about fitness or skill improvement and more about the break it offers from routine. Saturday evenings carry their own weight after a week of work, and standing on the field changes the rhythm of the day. Watching the mix of ages makes me aware of how games can flatten differences. A ball hit towards the boundary is just a ball that everyone chases, whether the runner is in school or approaching sixty. In those moments, the roles and titles people carry during the week fall away. It becomes clear how rare such spaces are in modern life, where structured schedules often divide people by age, profession, or background.

The habit of gathering for cricket each week will probably continue as long as enough people show up and the field remains available. It does not require heavy planning or investment, just the willingness of people to step outside their homes and play. That simplicity is what makes it sustainable. The mix of energy, humor, and quiet competition ensures that no single age group dominates, and the game stays open to whoever wants to join. Even if one week the turnout is small or the match ends early due to light, the act of coming together becomes its own achievement. In a city where routines can become isolating, these Saturday evenings offer a reminder that play is not just for the young and that community can be built in small, consistent steps.

· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

I attended a startup event today, the kind that brings together founders, investors, and a mix of other stakeholders. These sessions are always compressed, with a large amount of information packed into a short period. You rarely get depth, but you do get a starting point, a spark that leads you to think in new directions. In this case, the presence of a well-known investor like Elevation Capital added weight to the discussions, though the real value was in observing the mix of people and the way conversations shifted from structured panels to informal exchanges.

What I notice in such events is how surface-level ideas can still be useful. They act as reminders rather than revelations. A founder on stage might share a strategy you already know, but hearing it in a different voice helps it stick again. Investors talk about what they are looking for, and while it may not be new, it frames the current market climate. Even casual remarks made during a mixer can point to what is shifting in the ecosystem. These fragments accumulate, and the value is less in any one idea and more in the overall orientation they give you.

There is also the social aspect. Meeting people who are in similar or adjacent roles allows you to calibrate your own journey. You see what others are building, how they are framing their problems, and where the overlaps or gaps lie compared to your own thinking. The brief conversations in corridors or over coffee are usually more telling than the planned sessions. They cut through polish and get closer to what people are really concerned about. The formal and informal layers together make up the actual event.

Another observation is how these events often serve as checkpoints. They do not give you the complete map, but they confirm whether you are moving in a direction that resonates with others. Sometimes it is a validation that your challenges are shared. Other times it shows you the distance between your own position and the current market mood. In either case, the effect is grounding. It prevents working in isolation, even if only by giving you a snapshot of the broader conversation.

Leaving such an event, I am left with fragments more than frameworks. A few keywords, a couple of names, and some open-ended thoughts that can be followed up later. This incompleteness is part of the value—it forces you to continue the work on your own, rather than handing you a finished conclusion. For me, today was another reminder that startup events are less about answers and more about orientation, and in that sense, the brief intensity of the sessions achieves its purpose.

· 3 min read
Gaurav Parashar

Swiggy has been running hourly gamified deals that feel less like discounts and more like a game of chance. The rotating nature of these offers means that every hour carries the possibility of something better, and this creates a sense of urgency. Amazon and Flipkart also push frequent deals, but their approach is anchored around longer campaigns like “Great Indian Festival” or “Big Billion Days” rather than microbursts of changing opportunities. The shorter time horizon of Swiggy’s system leans heavily on psychology, particularly variable rewards, which are known to trigger repeated engagement. In commerce, just like in social media, uncertainty keeps users checking back.

This variable reward mechanism changes the rhythm of consumer behavior. On Swiggy, the decision to order food is not only about hunger but also about whether the current deal is attractive enough. That mix of timing and randomness alters the way one perceives value. On Amazon and Flipkart, deals are typically predictable within a campaign window, which makes them more rational and less emotional. Swiggy’s approach, by contrast, is designed to shorten the decision cycle and maximize impulse orders. It brings the mechanics of social media engagement loops directly into commerce.

Indians have always had a cultural affinity for deals, whether in local markets, seasonal sales, or now in digital platforms. The attraction is not limited to the size of the discount but also to the feeling of beating the system or finding something special. Swiggy has understood this deeply and built an engine around it. Amazon and Flipkart still dominate in terms of scale, but they rely on larger, planned shopping events where consumers wait and prepare. Swiggy operates on a smaller canvas yet applies more aggressive behavioral hooks. The difference highlights how food delivery has become not just about utility but about entertainment layered into daily life.

The addictive quality of Swiggy’s deals raises questions about long-term sustainability and consumer well-being. While Amazon and Flipkart operate within structured campaigns that allow for pauses, Swiggy’s hourly refresh creates constant stimuli. That makes it more aligned with the attention economy than traditional retail. A user may open the app multiple times a day, not because of need, but because of curiosity. This could drive higher frequency and deeper loyalty, but it could also create a fatigue similar to what happens on social media. The balance between engagement and exhaustion will determine whether this model can be sustained at scale.

What is clear is that commerce is no longer just transactional. Variable rewards are becoming a standard toolkit, whether in a feed of short videos or in a grid of food deals. Indians’ love for bargains amplifies the effect, making these strategies even more powerful in this market. The fact that a food ordering app is competing with the largest e-commerce companies not only in convenience but in the design of behavioral hooks shows how the lines between categories are blurring. It is a game changer, one that makes ordering biryani feel as engaging as scrolling through a social platform, and it signals how commerce will evolve in the coming years.

· 4 min read
Gaurav Parashar

A message from a friend popped up, asking for a look at his resume. He’s decided to re-enter the job market after a period away. My own world is currently my startup, a all-consuming reality of its own, but his request was a sharp pivot back to the conventional workforce, a system I know well but am temporarily detached from. The contrast was immediate. My days are now about building something from nothing, while his goal is to find a place within an existing structure. There’s a shared understanding in his tone, a slight hesitancy that speaks to a feeling of being rusty. The professional self can gather dust quickly, and presenting it to the world again requires a careful cleaning and polishing.

We started with the resume document itself. His was a capable, honest outline of his career, but it was clearly from a different time. It felt like a reliable piece of software that no longer receives updates—perfectly functional but not designed for the current environment. The format was dense, with paragraphs where bullet points are now standard, and it focused heavily on job duties rather than quantifiable achievements. Our first step was a structural edit, a move from narrative to data. We worked through each position, and the constant question became, "So what?" What was the impact of that duty? Did it save time? Increase revenue? Improve efficiency? This translation of responsibility into result is the core of a modern resume. It forces a different kind of thinking, a shift from what you were paid to do to what you actually accomplished. It can feel awkward, like you're overselling, but in the current market, it's simply the required dialect.

The next layer was understanding the mechanics of the job search itself, which has become a highly engineered process. I explained that his resume would likely first be read by an algorithm, an Applicant Tracking System designed to scan for keywords that match the job description. This isn't a minor point; it's the gatekeeper. We discussed the necessity of tailoring his application for each role, of carefully weaving the language from the job posting into his resume and cover letter. Then there is LinkedIn, which is no longer an optional supplement but a primary tool. His profile needed to be more than an online resume; it needed to be a dynamic, keyword-rich personal landing page. We worked on his headline and summary, aiming for clarity and searchability over creative flair. The entire system can feel impersonal, a game of optimizing for machines before you ever get to talk to a person.

The emotional weight of this process is significant. For someone re-entering the market, there's a vulnerability that underpins every action. There is the fear that his skills have atrophied, the anxiety about explaining the gap in his employment history, and the quiet worry that he's competing against a wave of constantly connected professionals. My role shifted from editor to coach, emphasizing that these feelings are not a sign of inadequacy but a natural response to the situation. The goal wasn't to fabricate a new persona but to help him reframe his existing experience with confidence. We discussed how to address the career gap in interviews—not as a deficit, but as a period of perspective-building. It’s about turning a perceived weakness into a narrative of deliberate choice and renewed focus.

Helping him has been a useful exercise for me. Immersed in the startup bubble, it's easy to forget the scale and complexity of the traditional job market. This process was a reminder of the universal challenges of presenting one's professional worth, whether you're pitching to an investor or applying for a posted role. The fundamentals are the same: clarity, value, and fit. For my friend, the path forward is one of consistent, patient effort—applying, networking, and slowly rebuilding that muscle of professional engagement. The market is tough, but it's not insurmountable. It just requires learning the new rules of the game.